Advice

So I'm actually looking for advice..... And I actually know what I should do so this seems stupid!!

But since October I've been bleeding after sex I'm 34 and my smear was 2018 I can't say I've had any other bad symptoms I have had a bad back ach on occasion more like a heavy bad back.

It's the bleeding that's concerning me and the pain.... After sex it's short lived but feels like a sore that's being irritated if that makes sense? I know the answer go to the Dr but I feel so stupid if it's nothing and embarrassed to even mention it.

Any advice would similar experience would be helpful I haven't told anyone about this so as the norm Google has become the answer. 

  • Hello ,

             its normal to be anxious and frightened of the things we are unsure of,and all too easy to allow this along with being embarrassed to cloud our judgement.The fact that youn are commenting on this sight means you have serious concerns.You already know there is only one place you will find the answers you seek,and its not here but at your doctors.

                                                                        If your worst fears were to be realised than allowing time and space for an invader to go about its business should put all your worries about seeking help into perspective. Book an appointment, l promise that that will be the hardest thing and everything else will come easier.

                         l had the same feelings myself,and hated the prospect of being probed in my intimate parts, but  lf l had waited any longer l would not be posting this,since it subsequently spread from bowel to liver

                 l hope you are helped and reassured very soon,

                                                                                                 David