Hello M-buttercup,

It's encouraging that the doctor says that you shouldn't worry about it, I think you should try taking the advice. When you are worried that you may have cancer, it can be tempting to look for answers on an online forum, but this can end up increasing anxiety rather than making you feel better. 

If you really feel you need a second opinion you can find out more here.

I hope this helps,

Moderator Anastasia

Thank you for your response. You are very right my anxiety is through the roof at the moment. I have an overwhelming feeling if not being able to cope. I did go back and the second opinion was the same as the first which was a relief however she has referred me to a dermatologist for a mole and the appointment will be within 2 weeks so now I am even more anxious.

I think it's important for you to focus on the positives to keep the anxiety at bay. It's good news that the second doctor feels the same way about the lump and, in the process, you've got a referral where you'll find out more about this mole. It should reassure you to know that nine out of ten people who are referred are found not to have cancer. You can read more about urgent referrals here. Worrying doesn't make things easier so you should focus on other things until your appointment.

Moderator Anastasia

Thank you that is a little reassuring. It just feels me with absolute terror. I know that most of this anxiety is stemming from my nanna being diagnosed with terminal lung cancer a few weeks ago and only being given weeks. I think my mind has just gone into over drive and I have become paranoid about everything.