i have recently split from my wife and have found a lump, I have been to the docs and am waiting for a scan to find out what’s what. My wife knows about it and has said she will come with me to the appointment but just lately we have been arguing and I am worried she won’t come with me, my biggest worry though is that my step kids still live with me and I am drinking quite a bit and am quite emotional at random times, I haven’t told them as I don’t want to worry them, they are 14 and 16, I am now thinking that I need to tell them so I can have someone to talk to but really don’t want to worry them as they are going through enough just now as it is with the split from their mum, feeling very lost and lonely at the moment
