Hello, My husband has been diagnosed with cancer, we do not have a clear diagnosis yet after 2 months of sporadic tests, a cancelled biopsy operation due to an error in treatment, picked up by a nurse at the last minute, subsequently husband sent for a pet scan , feeling very low, no conclusive results yet or treatment plan.
In the meantime our lives are falling apart, we are self employed and are watching our lives disintegrate before our eyes in 2 weeks of uncertainty.
we know we are not unique, but after a life of working and supporting ourselves, we feel we have no support , we do not know who to turn to for advice, lost in the nhs world of errors and lack of care, we both wonder if husband should Persue treatment or just give up now, as treatment so far is unbelievably incompetent, so not a whole lot of hope for the future for my husbands life.
any advice appreciated, we do not know where to put ourselves physically or mentally, as we feel the only news and results we will receive a will be awful and we have lost all hope as a consequence
