Going crazy.

i recently noticed a lump on my outside labia. It came from a constant itch I had for a couple of days. It’s now gone from 1 to 3 little white lumps. And 1 pin head lump on the right lip at the top of my vagina.

i went to the dr she said it was skin tags. I’m not convinced. And now I have a burning/tingling feeling on my right labia.

the dr told me she wouldn’t refer me but for peace of mind I could pay private for a gynaecologist consultation.

im so worried I have 3 children in 37.

what do you do when the Dr won’t refer you?