Hi I am new here, didn't know where else to go. My Dad is dying & I just neede to talk. (if you know what I mean) My Dad is dying from prostate Cancer & I just dont know what to do. I just hate seeing him like this. The completely helpless feeling I get everytime I walk into his hospital room. Knowing I cant take the pain away, I cant make him eat, I cant make him drink. All I can do is just sit there and wait for him to wake up for a short time & hope beyond hope he's having a good couple of minutes that he knows who we are & we are there or crossing my fingers that if he's having a confused moment that they are happy ones that makes us all laugh. He has always made us laugh our whole life so it feels right laughing round his bed. I especially love it when he starts singing some obscure song. I feel so guilty some days when I wish he would go to sleep & pass away when the truth is I just dont want him to go which makes me feel guilty that I am being selfish wanting him to stay. I know this a bit of a confused post but I am just so confused at the moment.