Hi flora hopefully others will soon join you from the forum to talk there's [@Sandra123]‍ or [@Chriss]‍ ‍ they are good listeners, remember its early days yet, best wishes.

Billy 

Hi flora

of course you are scared it’s a bit of a scary time and the worst bit is the waiting because during that time your mind is tail chasing.

if you have read other posts on here you will notice a lot of the advice on here is repeated so much so they are almost mantras. This does not detract from the fact they are true.

advice such as try to keep busy... if u are busy u are less likely to dwell.

It’s nothing till it is... many have test that turn out to be nothing but you had to go through the process to find this out.

live in the day... in other words stop the what ifs, could haves, should haves.... these thoughts are negative and will take your mind to dark places.

hold loved ones and family close... not because you are thinking you have cancer but because you should have always been doing this. 

Talk with your family if the shoe was on the other foot you would want to know. They are your support you need them.

I hope you have the best outcome possible. Hugs sent your way x

Hi there flora ..

And welcome ... not much l can add to our lovely sandra123 ... she's crossed all the bases ... and everyone of those things are real .. they will get you through ... and no amount of panic will change the outcome .. so worry , that's normal .. but no more panicking... 

And don't keep it all in ..yes they may be upset ... but you need to share and have someone with you on appointments ...  sending you a vertual hug... Chrissie x