Hi butterfly_1234

It sounds like he's trying to protect you, remember he doesn't know what he's going to be like his head is probably all over the place, he could be even worse when on treatment what ever it is, hope you both can sort something out, best wishes.

Billy 

Thank you Billy. He’s scared I know. He’s even said he doesn’t know whether he wants treatment which upsets me a lot. He’s not told any of his family or friends which I’m finding a big worry. 

No he doesn’t know about treatment yet. He’s got a appointment next week. I have said I can go with him so he doesn’t have to go alone. He’s said he doesn’t want to be a burden :( 

Hi butterfly. 

i might be completely wrong but have you thought about being bossy tell him your going with him to the appointment and that's that, the state he's in might help to take control. 

Billy 

I would if I could. Unfortunately he’s very stubborn. He won’t even see me. Thank you so much for your suggestions Billy.

Sorry ideas didn't work hopefully someone else might have some, others look but don't always reply. 

Billy 

Thank you for your suggestions though Billy. It’s really appreciated. Just feel broken and helpless with the whole situation.