Hello this is my first time on here and not sure if I'm doing the right thing really? I have just left my husband at the hospital after being told that his stage 4 lung cancer has spread to his brain and spine. He was doing ok up until Friday has had 4 sessions of chemo and 10 rads, and then Friday night had severe back pain. By Saturday 5am I called an ambulance as the pain had gone to his stomach and he started acting strange as if he was drunk and sluring. He started talking and shouting to people who wasn't there. Hasn't ate or drunk anything since then and is constantly vomiting I have just been informed that he can come home tomorrow and that palliative care will be put in place. I am totally numb and can't believe what I have just been told. I haven't even cried yet .