I have no one to help me what do I do if things get so bad I can’t cope? I nursed my mum with cancer and she nursed her mum with it. I have no one. I tried to tell my son I was ill he said “It’s all doom and gloom with you and went on to say he didn’t need this he was suffering from depression and anxiety. My dad is abroad and I have to send him money all the time as he always gets into a mess. My daughter I told I was ill first cut me off and won’t answer my calls or texts. I wasn’t surprised she faints at the sight of blood always has. She’s afraid I think. She had my first grandchild a year ago I have not seen the baby even. They are both good kids good jobs, never were in trouble with the Police and don’t drink, smoke or take drugs. I didn’t ever either. I brought them up as a single parent. I worked two jobs sometimes to feed them. Their dad left after an affair when they were small he never paid maintenance or visited. I wonder if that’s the reason. He never looked back. He never missed us. Now my daughter seems to be the same. So when things get bad for me how do I cope? I have no savings. I have been in and out of work through bad health. Unniversal credit seem to do anything they can not to help. To them if I can get up on my feet I can work. Who will help me when it’s too much for me? My partner was flaky had an affair. He ran for the hills too at the first sign I was sick. In cases like mine who will help me?
