Been there. It’s like what is being talked about is for some one else not you? 

Hi Rileyroo

Thank you . It’s really hard. Friends and family say I am brave and strong - I am neither of those things just numb. Xx

Don’t worry about how you feel, or don’t as the case may be. Just concentrate on getting through the next few days  and the op. Are you having your nodes checked as well?

Hi LuluCoco,

I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Please don't worry about how you are feeling. This is perfectly normal. Many of us feel like this at this stage. 

You will begin to feel better once you start surgery and treatment. You have a long road ahead of you and, I sincerely hope that it all goes well for you. Please let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

hi, I have just had my surgery after being diagnosed 4 weeks ago , I am relieved the surgery is over , I also feel so many emotions , numb , so emotional , you will feel a bit of pain afterwards , but you do get through it because you have to , cancer can’t win , xxx