hi my names john just been told i got cancer im scared

Hi I'm john age 66 just been told got cancer and I'm scared out my head

 

  • I been ok last Cpl days but reali feel bad today stomack keeps churning keep trying get mind of it but getting loads bad thoughts not Shaw wat to do

     

  • Can your doctor not give you something to help with the stomach problems - do ask.    It might sound silly but try playing word games in those awful hours when you just cannot sleep.  You can play a-b-c games for instance countries beginning with A, then B etc.  You can do it with anything; girls or boys names; capital cities, towns in the UK whatever.  Or just get up and make yourself a drink to sip on and a book to read.  everyone has their own methods of getting through the nasty night hours.  Annie

  • Hi John,

    Have you been told what to expect next, or are you in that limbo period of knowing you have OC but no-one's told you what will happen next? 

    For what it's worth my own timeline went something like this:

    week 1 - endoscopy and biopsies - verbal feedback "there's a growth at the bottom of your gullet - I've arranged an urgent CT scan"

    week 2 - CT scan and at the end of the week feedback from upper GI surgeon ... referral to Oncologist

    week 3 - first meeting with oncologist, discussion of initial biopsy results, cancer type, stage and grade confirmed - treatment options discussed and agreed 

    week 4 - treatment started  

    I can honestly say those seemed to be the longest 4 weeks of my life. I did anything I could to stop my mind from dwelling on it - worked hard, binge watched DVDs, read umpteen books, drank lots of wine, gin and whisky, slept very little. I don't recommend all of these but as Annie says, just do whatever gets you through! I also discovered Cancer Chat and talked with people who were a few months ahead of me down the care pathway.

    Good luck

    Dave

     

  • Hi Annie yes I been reading my bible as helped alotgive me bit peace

     

  • Thankyou Dave that as helped I been reading my bible helps alot my family here for me but don't know wats in yet head talking to ppl with same or similar dose help loads