Hello Debbie.   Welcome.  Could you give us a bit more information?  Everyone here has been affected by cancer - either themselves or their loved ones.  So please feel free to tell us what is happening in your family and tell us how it is affecting you and if there is any particular thing you want to discuss.  I know from my own experiences - having lost family and friends to cancer over the years - how difficult it is to get your head around the situation but we would be happy to to talk to you to the best of our ability.  Annie