If I could talk to my younger self....

Where do I start. My diagnosis has been a huge shock to me and my wee family. I have always had a lot of moles, never thought anything of it. This is me I thought. In my twenties I loved a tan. Little did I think the consequences my older self would encounter. I as a smoker at that time too had the “I’m young and invincible” mentality. Yet, alas, here I am at 35. Thankfully I gave up the cigarettes the day I found out I had a life in my belly in 2012. I gave up sun beds too. But then my child was born. I was impelled back. I felt thinner, better, with a tan. This tan has cost me. I have melanoma. The drs have confirmed this is from UV damage. I live in Aberdeen. This is not climate. What I chose. Choose wisely I would tell my younger self. Life with your daughter is far more important than a tan in your twenties.

  • Hi there ... wouldn't we all do things differently if we could tell our selfs in our youth what we know now .. I'd have said don't start smoking at 24 ... why I'd not done it until then ... crazy ... 

    When your young you never think you'll grow old ... you do in the blink of an eye ... 

    Never let nasty people get to you, just move them out of your life ...

    When you have young children, hold every day in your heart, they grow up so fast, and leave a big hole in your heart .....

    Tell loved ones" l love you " more  ... you never know if you'll get another chance ...

    Mend bridges with those who you fall out with, even if they don't come back, at least you told them you care ...  Chrissie x

     

  • Hi Chrissie, you speak a great truth! Wise words, thank you x