Hello Molimo.  I noticed that your mum had been diagnosed a couple of weeks ago and wondered what was happening since your first post.  Some of us are a bit shy about barging in and asking questions but I hope you will not mind discussing what your mum is going through and how it is affecting you.  Do you have other family members who are a source of support? Is  your mum at home - with you?  See, it is me being inquisitive again but it helps us to discuss the full picture with you - if this is what you would like.  How are you coping?  Best wishes.  Annie