Hey,

New to this - just looking for some help/advice. 

My mum passed away Septmeber last year from Lung cancer - she was only diagnosed a few months before. 

Since she has passed my dad had problems with his prostate so had it removed - when they removed it they found prostate cancer.

He has since been for bone/CT/MRI scans - yesterday he had his review and has said he has to have more bloods and is waiting for a radiotherapy appointment. 

My dad is the worst communicator in the world and his memory is shocking. That bad you can have a conversation with hims and him not remember it a few hours later. 

He will not let me or my sisters into any of his appointments and will not give us permission to speak to them -he gives us information like cryptic clues.

Does anyone know how we can find out what is going on? We think he is keeping it from us due to everything we went through with mum but we want to be there for him like we all wer for mum.

Thanks in advance.