Hello my husband has recently been diagnosed with nasal cancer which is just operable but he will be losing his nose, top lip and upper hard palate. This has come after recently moving in with my elderly parents one of whom has dementia. I now find myself in the position of being carer to all three. My husband has gone to pieces and is barely holding it together. I have gathered information for local support groups and saving faces for him to contact but he is refusing to help himself. I find myself swinging between anger and sadness at both him and the situation. So I find myself on this forum for some help and support.
