Hi
sadly I lost my mum to lung cancer on feb 25th 2018 which was also my partners birthday , my mum only had 16 weeks with us but we think she had it longer , kept going around to the doctors saying she didn’t feel well , but kept brushing it of finally she went for a chest X-ray and they found a cavity , when we finally went to see the consultant he told us it was the size of a 50pence piece , when mum finally got to the marsden a month later , we were told side of a grapefruit, and agreesive , mum finally got her first chemo jan 6th 2028
she done really well on that . When it came round to have the second chemo mum wasn’t feeling to good two days later mum was in hospital with the flu and a lung infection, mum started to go delirious so they done a second scan and it had spread to the second lung , basically we was told no more treatment was to be offered which was just heartbreaking, but we never told mum as we wanted her to fight , mum kept saying she wanted to go home so we made that happened myself and the rest of my family stayed with my mum solid everyday and every night , but watching mum deteriorating was awful , but we have so many memories of mum and even more being with her to the end , we buried my mum on the 16th March , as people keep saying to me it does get easier , u learn to deal with it , my mum was my best friend and soul mate we even worked the same shifts together at work , I’m planning to return back on the 3rd April but don’t know how hard I will find it , but wot I do know wot I done for my mum she certainly would of done the same for me x