Cancer

I lost my mum to cancer at 55 years old it was such a shock as no real symptoms Untill the last 2 weeks where she was breathless,tired and vacant at times. She went to the doctors a numerous times in the last few weeks where they prescribed her anti biotics for a chest infection how ever it was fluid in the lungs. I am glad that she wasn't aware as I think it would of been harder for her and she would not of been as happy and relaxed in her last weeks how ever I am quite concerned that despite X-rays and blood tests it wasn't found and only found due to postmortem. It is the second time she has had cancer she had Breast cancer 15 years ago. Should they not receive regular check ups which could of prevented it spreading so much ? 

  • Hi there, just sending you my heart felt sympathy.... from what you said it may be a blessing she didn’t know how little time she had ... it is so raw in the early days ... so many emotions... I kept thinking someone would ring me up and tell me mum was o.k and they got it wrong ... so just be prepared for lots of different ones ... so sending you a big hug. Chrisie ️ X

  •  Hi, sorry for the loss of your mum at such a young age and as you say you were happy that  she was'nt aware, that in itself is a blessing.Like you  i would assume that they would have regular check ups and do further testing when some one comes to them who is feeling ill whom previously had cancer. My own daughter had cancer at the age of 27 and survived and beat it, but since then she has had no check ups or regular screening to keep an eye out , or when she has been sick the odd occassion, they dont even think to look at or test for cancer or a return of it. She is turning 40 and so far  she is fine but i think like you surely they should recieve regular check ups. Take care Barbara.