Hi there shazzer ... I know you would love a definite answer hunny .. but we all go on here, coz none of us know at the beginning what this life has in store .. all we can do, is hold each other’s hand, be a listening ear ... and to let you know your not alone ... we all keep our fingers crossed ... we are all on a journey... or know someone we love that’s on their journey... you will see the word rollercoaster keep coming up.. that’s because we feel like wer on this rollercoaster ride, we have good days and low days ... but wer all on this ride together... so hold on tight, it sure is a bumpy ride ... but wer all here with you ... sending you a big hug ... Chrisie xx