supporting husband

Hello just joined the forum and not sure what to say. My husband was diagnosed with kidney and lung cancer in February, was an enormous shock as we were told he had a hernia.He's taking sutent and we're taking each day at a time, I didn't realise how much our life would change but he's being amazingly brave and positive and we're looking forward to going on holiday on Friday just the tonic we need.

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    Hi Elaine,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat, although sorry that you have to be here.

    I can fully appreciate the shock it would have been when your husband was expecting to be told about a hernia, but instead was told that he had kidney and lung cancer. A diagnosis like this affects the whole family and treatment starts so fast that everybody is left reeling. How has he been coping with Sutent?

    I hope that you have a great holiday and come home well rested and ready to batle on.

    Please keep us in the loop. There is always someone here whenever either of you feel like talking.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thank you for your kind words Jolamine he has his good days and bad days on sutent his appetite is affected, taste buds, gets very tired and his hair and moustache have turned white!! One of the worst side effects is the upset stomach but it mainly affects him in the morning so he still manages a couple of hours at work a few days a week. His last 2 ct scans shows a slight shrinkage in his lung tumours which we're clinging onto and hope for it to continue each time in the future. They want to see a lot more shrinkage before they'll consider removing his kidney as the mass fills it, and there has been no more spread to anywhere else which was good news.

    thank you

    Elaine xx

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    Hi Elaine,

    This sounds hopeful. Despite the horrid side-effects from the sutent, it seems worth all the discomfort when the tumours are shrinking, even if only slightly. He is doing well if he is managing a couple of hours at work a few days a week. The other good news is that there has been no more spread.

    It is always great to get some positive news. Let's hope that this trend continues for him. Go away on holiday and try to forget all about this for a few days at least.

    Thinking of and praying for you both.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx