Hi Lynne ... just looked back on your post as just seen your reply along with ours ... you lost your husband a week be for I had my mastectomy so I hadn't been on here then ...

I just wanted to say how heartfelt that reply was ... and l really hope your heart has healed slightly ... l believe they don't leave us, they just live in our hearts ... l have lost many loved ones over the years , and know although we learn to live without them... but we never stop missing them ...

There's so many wonderfull people on here now walking that path and are in so much pain and I'm sure you have helped them ... (apart from the one in question)  my big sister is in late stages dementure ... that is so hard and so cruel ... any ways I'd love to know how you are doin now .. hope you don't mind me bringing back this post to chat with you ... big hug brave lady ... Chrissie xx