Hi I'm new to this group. I decided to join because I don't know how to deal with a situation. My Uncle is in a nursing home for mental health issues but he also has a growing Sarcoma on his calf. Despite having the opportunity to have an operation, my Auntie has decided is should be left alone! I'm really concerned that he is in pain but unable to speak out. I think this is a very  cruel decision. I'm having a hard time coping with how he is feeling!