Acinic Cell Carnicinoma - Saliva Gland Cancer

Hi . Found a small lump the size of a pea at the base of my ear. It grew to the size of 3 peas. Saw a specialist and the rollercoaster began. Had a Parotid Gland tumour the size of a golf ball removed 2 weeks ago and wasn't at all worried as the 2 biopsies prior to surgery were beningn.

well last night got the devastating news that the tumour itself was malignant - Cancer.

now have to wait to get referred to another team and have no idea how long I should wait.... the last 24 hours has felt like an eternity already .....

any advice please - my head is everywhere and I feel a total mental mess 

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Jasper although I'm sorry to hear about the news you have received and the reason it has brought you here.

    I think you echo the thoughts of many members here upon receiving a cancer diagnosis and I'm sure some of our members will be along when they can to offer their support and advice. In the meantime I have included some information that I have found on our website about coping with a cancer diagnosis which I hope will help at this time.

    If you want to find out more about what happens next do give our cancer nurses a call next week. Their number is 0808 800 4040 and free to call from a UK landline Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. (except bank holidays).

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • my cancer was gynea so my situation very different. but i thought my surgery was for benign reason and had a major shock when told different. i then had  CT scan and 2 weeks to wait until had full picture . 

    so I had the similar feeling of shock and waiting and being scared. only myself and husband knew and that was how I wanted it. only just happened so stiil feels surreal.

    do what you think will keep you feeling ok while you wait, use the helplines - even if they cant tell you answers it helps to say how you feel or cry. i was able to be busy so that helped me push things to one side at times. be kind to yourself , you will get some control back once you know the picture. 

    best wishes wendy7