I hope all goes well on Friday and there is something they can do for your mum!! I'm feeling the same as you I don't know how they find the strength to be so brace and positive, It has definitely made me realise how precious life is and to treasure every moment! Always here if you would like someone to talk to feel free to bob me a message, sometimes it's helpful to talk to a stranger in these situations! Sending you and your mum lots of positive vibes!!! Xx

Try and stay positive!!! We still haven't had a time out on dad we just know its incurable but they can treat it to stop the spread so I'm dreading the day they tell us how long he has :( 

Hi im sorry to hear about your father and mum and in law,, im new to this forum and just found out yesterday my husband has lung cancer ,7cm by 2cm,,,, apparently they knew he had it christmas time when he was in hospital and it was only a small blob but they failed to tell him and its grown fast, he is due to go to the hospital tommorow afternoon to discuss things and have proceerds done, We both broke down and cried for hours, he wanted to top himself because he doesnt want to be a burden on me...We are coming up to our first wedding anniversary in june..Hes sleeping alot today but im besides myself at the moment.. His parents know and my children know but he hasnt told his twin girls yet and they are only 20.Its so hard not knowing what to do and watch him suffering....