my niece if 15, and her mums mother has had cancer for some some time of the Breast? However it's now after years come back but terminal and has not long to live. I'm not sure how to deal with the fact she is very upset dealing with eating at the table as a family with her nan and grandad and parents and she can see her nan is very I'll, being sick etc and asked told me how she feels , but also has told her parents but seem to ignore her feelings. Now also they aren't aware I know of her upset , and its how I approach my brother to say she has called me , and is very much struggling seeing her nan but its kind of in her face and expecting my niece to just sit through it in an way.
So 1. What do i do, 2. Without underminding her trust to tell me. 3. How do I help her , 4. Is there a website or something perhaps I can send to my niece that she can show her parents to help them realise the upset its causing her. Any assistance you can help me point her in would be appreciated .
thank you
