Hi Charles he sadly passed away on Wednesday thank you for asking about him x

How is she doing? Same with my father in law he was diagnosed 11th jan and hes been having chemo since ebd if jan every other week hes actually done incredibly well on it no sickness just really tired. Hes reduced the strength to try reduce the tiredness but hes still tired so has to nap every day afternoon. Hes gone from moping about ti booking 2 holidays for wnd of august and end of Sept. I hope to god hell still be fit enough to go by then. Even months on it's still hard to believe hes actually dying as he looks so well bar losing about 3 stone in weight rapidly.

I’m so so sorry like I said my dad died 21 May had funeral only thing to do is collect asheses and I still haven’t accepted it my heart goes out to you and all your family and a special kiss to your dad for trying to fight against this horrible thing all the best I’m here if you ever want to speak as we’re both in the same situation x

Charles so sorry about your dad its a horrible disease and watching them going from doing things normally then getting that he wasnt eating or hardly drinking and lost so much weight.  He fought to the end and was not nice seeing him pass away it was heartbreaking.  Take care Diane 

I no I’m still numb I watched dad and so glad I was there at the end but cannot get that vision out my head like I said my heart goes out to everyone especially them with bile duct as I can relate to them more I lost my mom when I was 15 and now 46 feel bad cause I got no emotion even tho I no my dad was my heartbeat I also thankgod for this site as it’s more comforting than the phone calls where u just don’t want to talk no more god bless you all  try and keep strong cause we are important too we have to keep family going cook clean etc x

Hi was the tablets you got was for bile duct cancer I'm only asking as one of my daughters friends has it and shes only 13 and the doctors said they cant do anything I'm worried about her as shes so young can any one help please 

Hi bob C how are you doing? 

My dad got diagnosed with this cancer last week. He is 66yrs.. no symptoms only discomfort mistaken for indigestion! No jaundice, no loss of appetite.. he was taken to A&E with distended stomach.. Ascites has built up and a ct scan revealed a 12cm tumour on his liver abs has metastasized to his abdominal cavity they said. They haven’t offered chemo yet as they are waiting to see if it has spread to the bowl.. he was fit and healthy 2 weeks ago on holiday around France! It literally has come out of nowhere.. 

Thanks for reply, they are indicating to us that if the bowl has been affected they won’t offer chemo just mangement of symptoms. His Ascites has built up again and they said they will put in a permanent drain to keep him comfortable.. he is in great form and you would never know to look at him that he was ill.. the doctors are being so vague with a prognosis. They just said months and defynot a year.. am in complete shock. He has had no symptoms, attends doctor twice a year for checkups etc and nothing ever showed.. is it possible he could get a year.. we are in Ireland 

I think he could make it, but what do I know.  I think I have 1 year plus and have cancer all over.  I will be praying for him.