hi there I'm new to the site... my beloved Dad was diagnosed with myeloma 4 weeks ago which has been a massive shock to us all. He's always been fit and healthy and hasn't noticed any real symptoms although dive his diagnosis friends have said they thought he looked very unwell. He's just finished his first cycle of chemo and seems more positive but we've had to stay away a lot as my son aged 5 has awful cough and cold and the rest of us have a cough that just won't go away...,just want to be there for him..,,