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Lomac
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I had a major op followed by chemotherapy sessions.  The last one was 3 weeks ago. Apart  from obvious recovery issues, my husband had a stroke last week. He is doing OK and is home, but now there are 2 of us struggling. I am emotionally and physically exhausted, trying to cope and not show how weak and weepy I feel. I just wanted to tell somebody this.

  • Hi Lomac, 

    I noticed you hadn't had a reply yet so wanted to just post and check in with you, see how you and your husband are both doing. 

    It certainly sounds as if it's a difficult time for you both at the moment and totally understandable that you feel the way you do. You have been through an awful lot physically and emotionally and feeling weepy is natural. 

    Do you have someone that you're able to talk to about how you're feeling or that can help with/arrange some additional practical support if that is something that would make things easier for you both? If you, or your husband, have a nurse specialist they are a good point of contact or otherwise then give your GP sugery a ring and talk with them.

    We do also have a team of nurses here who you can call if you think it might be helpful to do so. THey are available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on Freefone 0808 800 4040.

    Sending you our best wishes Lomac!
    Jenn.
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Offline in reply to Moderator Jenn

    Thank you for response. I have made appointments at the GP now for us both - tomorrow. I am hoping to get some support. The GP who knows us really well has unfortunately left, so starting afresh at a difficult time may be hard. Weve decided to cancel a holiday abroad as its only 5 weeks away. Disappointing but we feel its too soon.

    Our daughters are trying to persuade me to have someone coming in to help, which is being considered. I've  been pretty strong and positive, but my husband's Stroke has knocked my emotions for six!  However,  I must also say that I am lucky to have a supportive family and friends network. I just need to pick myself up.

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