Mum in hospice & Dad palliative care. Been divorced for many years so don't live together.  Mum very end stage and Dad found out 6 weeks ago, lost 3 stone in 8 weeks.  Kidney cancer spread everywhere, no treatment just palliative.  Both parents 75, been a nightmare as with Dad everyday and then mum in hospice which is awful but makes practically easier.  Every corner has been red tape with Dad.  Other outside things not helping, so very difficult x