Hi I'm 36 have 2 teenagers I've been married 20 years this year and 3 years ago my dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer doctors said it started as prostate and moved on to bone at the time he was given 6 months so we have been extremely blessed with having the extra time with him but it really hit me the last week when we were told that the chemo and meds aren't working no more I have never thought of joining groups coz I felt wrong as I believed them to be for the people who have cancer but I see this site and decided to try it please feel free to say hi