Hi Gemini sorry it's took so long get back to you thanks for replying just had Dougie mac out its a matter of days now..its funny cause I don't want her to go but I don't  want see her in pain.oh I don't know just can't think straight..how's your mum I know it's a stupid question but you know what I mean.

Hi pip99 u don't have 2 be sorry I understand if u look at my mother u think there nothing wrong with her she started to get out breath when she walks the doctor give her spinhaler 2 help her breath. So far the pain under control only time she gets pain if she moves if she resting on the bed fine . So we waiting for her to have something to help her out bed . It's so hard yesterday she had doctor because she been still bleeding she have been in hospital b4 with it she had tested done they told her womb is thining she been on medication 4 it but it not working they told her there tablet they can give but she got 2 bleeding heavy b4 they can give it . my mother had Doctor they give her tablets . They should have given the tablets in begin my mother was upset she feel because she terminal they don't care . I'm sorry 2 here about u mum it's cruel :( 

Aah it us cruel shes not the mum i know..it takes everything from them ..your mum's  right they don't care but as long as she's got you and the family .. we were told first 2 years ago that she had cancer in the womb anf it was contained in there they gave her a hysterectomy and took some lymph nodes out then a week later she broke her hip and they found cancer in that she had hip replacement then they said it was in bones and could be managed just one thing after another I don't think they really know they probably did more damage opening her up all that for nothing that's how I feel....keep your chin up..and I send my love to your mum.

Thanks pip99 same here any time u need chat I'm here take care sending u and u mum big hugs x