cancer

wos diagnosed with grad 4 blstoma 18 munths two years am i a lone in never thinking why me .iv come too terms with diying no thear of deaf .but my problem is diying with digety sadley il have to end it earley to achev dignety wich is sumthing that is the only way so il not kow how much quoity of life id have with famerly ..sadley thers too many cases wear the pore sod begs to have it endid ,is that the cering that som body thinks is write for us i f we wor pets the oners wood be up in cort for croletly and in fliting sufering to the pore dog or cat ext .so why do thay insist that we who shud kow better alow shuch in humen and barbarick thing too hapen in the 20first centery .i fuly understand sum pepal wood not wish to end life early but for those of us thnat do we shud have the chose wehen we can makeone .and it woodent be write to have famley risk being haled up in cort for ending your sufering ,,im not a newcomer to this as i let my dad do it when he still had his write mind he did not have cancer .ial not say wot wos wrog with him .we had descusd it be for and one nite he rang me to say that hed rung my bro and his last words wear he wished we cud be frends but sadley bro wosent up for that .when i went up to my dads next moring i kowe wot too expet ,and sum of you wood have gon and saved him but for wot a horibull death ,is that the cering that shud be meaterd out ,and as for that bar///d bro hel only find out after im gone ,

 

  • Hello Pedro1,

    It sounds like you are going through such a tough time.  We are sorry to read about how things are for you at the moment and the lack of help you seem to be getting.  In most cases it is possible with good palliative care to allow someone to die with dignity even if it is illegal to assist someone in dying, so we would urge you to talk to your GP or the palliative care team.  There may be other practical help that your GP or the local social services can organise for you too.  In the meantime it might also help to contact the Samaritans to talk through how you are feeling.  You can contact them on 116 123. 

    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

     

  • hi im not suisidl imnot in abad place .but its bin difecult on top of cemo and radio i wos fond to have hart problems wich makes tirednes worse even with the tabs forit and then fineshed tret ment and cop for a bad cold  that brok last nite 

    wot im trying to say in spit of everything im coping well with all thats thown at me .and as for paitve care it ant for me and i dont nead the sermartons wot id like is not alowed is it to much to ask for deth with dignenty ?? 

  • ps im not in nead of help as iv not got any probs with the cancer im baCK TOO WEAR i started with no disability at the sart of the juney i wos falling all over weekness on left side went to docs convist that id had a stroke  just hope i get sum mojo back befor i go back words