I feel a bit of a fraud by not being the actual suffer coming on here but by doing so i may be able to pick up some tools and advice to help my partner and myself deal with the news today. She has advanced Lung Cancer.

She is such a strong lady or so it appears, me just falling apart i feel such a let down. I hope over the days/weeks/months/years ahead i can become stronger for her and with strength from here and the forum the jouurney will be manageable for all concerned.