vulva cancer experiences?

hallo,

i am german, 63 years old and since 4 months i know i have a vulva carcinom. please forgive me a bad english...its long ago i learned it ;-) this week i will have the 4th operation in just 12 weeks, in my age rather difficult to manage. i discovered it under the shower and felt: something is else, feels else than it used to be. i had no pain, no bleeding, no itches - nothing. it was casuel i felt it: i got out of washing sponges...i live alone with my cats caring of my alzheimer-mother, she is 87 next saturday.

i am going to surgery in frankfurt/universityhospital, the other surgeries were here in the town i live. in frankfurt they use another method, i will experience if it works, i have nothing to loose. btw i had breast cancer 7 years ago.

you can ask me what you want as i have no idea what could be interesting for you. greetings from *taunus*!