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Dad has lung cancer

Gracie2007
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Hi everyone...I'm Nicky and recently got the devastating news that my dad's cancer was back and this time there is nothing they can do. He had half his lung out 12 months ago and I stupidly thought that was it...cancer free but no...not to be I'm afraid. He's been told he has 12 months maybe 3 months more with chemo....but I'm so sad and scared of what's ahead. He looks fit and healthy at the minute and I keep thinking maybe they got it wrong? But I know they didn't.  Will the symptoms come gradually or all at once? I'm really scared of watching my poor dad suffer. He's my best friend and can't imagine my life without him and him not being there for me. 

Thanks for any replies 

 

Nicky xx

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Gracie although I'm really sorry to hear that your dad's cancer has returned and nothing more can be done.

    If you can, try to take each day as it comes and enjoy the time you have left together. I know that is easier said and done but 12 months - 15 if your dad has chemo - gives you a lot of time to make many happy memories for you to cherish forever.

    Many of our members have been in a similar position to the one you are in and will really understand how you are feeling right now. Hopefully they will post soon to offer you their support and share their experiences with you, especially those with a family member diagnosed with lung cancer.

    Best Wishes, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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