Welcome to Cancer Chat youngersister although I'm sorry for the reason it has brought you here.

I can't imagine how tough this must be for you right now but try to take comfort from the fact that you were able to fly out to see your sister and spend time with her which I'm sure she really appreciates. Being in contact by phone or through computer software which enables you to see each other whilst you chat will definitely remove the void of not being there and will instantly make you feel closer. Even though you can't be there now are there any friends or family members in South Africa that could care for your sister? 

I also wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Many of our members have been in a similar situation, most recently [@devonlicious2017]‍, who will completely understand what you are going through right now and now that I've tagged them in this post they will hopefully be along soon to offer their support and advice.

Stay strong youngersister and remember that we are here for you if you need us.

Wishing you all the best, 

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator