Hello

I am new to the forum.  My fit and healthy husband started feeling unwell 7 weeks ago and has now been diagnosed with bowel cancer that had spread to his liver and peritoneum.  He is unable to eat or drink much and has fluid on the lungs.  He now barely gets up for the sofa.  I am really struggling with feeling incredibly sad and worried for him but on occasions very frustrated.  What has prompted this post is that after 4 weeks of only seeing family and hospitals I had arranged to see a friend for a coffee for an hour tomorrow and I now think he is going to make that difficult .  Feel completed conflicted about this.  Absolutely don't know what to do for the best for him.

sorry this is a rather howl like introduction but struggling to talk about this - there are some things it isn't fair to share with the person you love when they are so sick