Confused and scared

Hello everyone. I have had breast cancer surgery 3 weeks ago which was successful but now the oncologist has given me a whole load of very scary statistics regarding my type of cancer and now they want to give me chemo which was never on the cards before. I feel like all the positive news from the surgery has gone out the window and I'm faced with having this treatment which I may not need. To either have the chemo or take the alternative path of naturopaths etc both seem equally confusing and scary. I feel like whatever decision I make will be the wrong one. Anyone in a similar situation? xx

  • Hi Sam,

    Sorry to hear you have cancer, but pleased to hear your good news.

    Your cancer team should have communicated with you better. As I understand it, chemo is almost always offered about six weeks after surgical removal as a way of dealing with any invisible cancer cells which may have spread through your body.

    It's a bit like pulling up weeds in your garden and then putting weedkiller down to stop any seeds growing.

    Having chemo reduces the odds of a recurrence and gives a lot of people peace of mind, but can have unpleasant side effects. Everyone needs to decide for themselves which is the least worst option for them.

    The naturopath option has no scientific evidence behind it, despite the claims of the people selling it as an alternative. 

    I hope this helps.
    Dave

     

  • Hello Sam51,

    I see that davek has already given you a very useful response and thought I would also send you our link to the difference between complementary and alternative therapies. You can find out more about this here. 

    I hope this helps!

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator