I am very scared right now, my husband has prostrate cancer which has spread to his liver he is very ill. We have carers coming in when I am at work but he has told the district nurse that he doesnt want carers at all, especially when I am at home. This weekend has been really really bad, he cant get to the loo now without my help he doesnt want to eat and is only able to shuffle if he gets up at all- I am scared to put him to bed as he has to climb the stairs ( he doesnt want a bed downstairs). I have to work next week, we have no money and it means I have to leave my thirteen year old with him ( he is off school on holiday) It isnt fair on him and there is never anyone to talk to at weekends I would like to dial 111 and leave a message for the nurse but he will go mad