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Hi I've just bin told the worst news of my live my whole world has change my life is about this for the next couple of months or years I don't no what to expect or do or how to feel what do I say it's bin just over 4 weeks I got told and when people see me they say I am sorry ,how u feeling ,if u need anything u no where I am .i no they mean well but if I dint have C most of them would walk right past me and not even say hello so y not that's the thing that gets me so mad I feel more sick at them than the C .I AM SO SORRY IF I hAVE UPSET ANYONE I AM nEW AT THIS I DONT NO HOW OR WHAT I AM FEELING IF ANY WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT ME AND HAVE A CHAT I WOULD LOVE THAT THANKS .# ONELOVE XXX

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    Hi I'm so sorry to hear of your recent diagnosis, you did not say where your cancer is? Have you had all your scans etc for staging yet. Knowing more about this can help you to "get your head around things a little better".

    It is only natural to feel this that I know I am up and down all the time but trying to stay positive and focusing on eating healthy and exercising is keeping me going!

    I think people just don't know how to react to you when you tell them you have cancer the dreaded C word that every one prays they will never hear!!

    I hope uve lots of support from genuine friends and this site is brilliant there is always someone happy to talk to you and give there support! Take care xx

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    Hi, I just this minute joined.  Last October my husband was told the shocking truth.  He has mesothelioma which up to now they have no cure but, we now feel he has a good, fighting chance as heis doing trials and as we know this is how cures are found.  He already had 2 chemos and on April 5th he is having his plaura and diaphram removed then 4 more chemos. I hope you are coming to terms with your awful news, I know it takes over so that every minute we think about it.  I don't know which type or where your cancer is but I wish you the very best of luck and hopefully a complete recovery. xxx

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    iam right there with you. iam devestated. i dont even wanna get out of bed.

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