Hi. My mum was diagnosed with advanced BC aged 46, no symptoms, found at a well woman clinic. She had a full mastectomy and chemo. I have always been breast aware, and even asked once I hit 40 for a mammogram but was refused, told I'm not high risk and I'll get one at 50. I'm now 44, a mum to 2 young boys, and this morning whilst lying on my side in bed found what I thought was a teeny lump. Thought I was being silly as couldn't "find it" again. Anyway. ...step out of shower and catch reflection in mirror, & there roughly where I felt lump was a puckering. Asked my husband to look at both sides to see if I was imagining it and he confirmed it was just on one side. Now sat drinking beer and eating my kids eggs wishing the next 2days away until I can get to the docs. Can I demand a referral or fo I just go on what they say? Thx for reading x