Hi, I'm a single mum and just been diagnosed with bcc on my nose, not had biopsy to confirm yet, but sought a second opinion after first dermatologist said a plastic surgeon has to remove a large chunk of my nose and second dermatologist has said it is bcc, but is going to do a biopsy to confirm as I'm terrified. I have 2 children, one disabled and no family, so I have no idea how we are going to cope or manage as I already have low self esteem and anxiety about going out and with the disfigurement I know I won't leave the house again, but I don't know what we will do as my son has high needs and can't manage outside the home without support, which means he will be trapped in the house too and I'm afraid we are going to be dependent on my youngest. I am praying both the consultants are wrong, but it's not going away after 5 years. I won't be able to work any more as I won't be able to deal with people seeing me or cope with the anxiety and as I'm self employed I won't be entitled to any sickness benefit, so I don't know how we will even live. I'm not coping with the worry at all and especially worry for who is going to look after my children when I'm not going to be able to do the things they need me to?