I received my breast cancer diagnosis yesterday - very brutally via a phone call. I should explain that I am a british expat living abroad, and the doctor who called me is from a foreign hospital. Im sure he didnt mean to be so callous but English is not his first language and Im having trouble actually processing any information..... My diagnosis stemmed from an abnormal mammogram followed the same day by a biopsy (not sure what its called but they used the needles that make the loud bang). Results came via phone call yesterday. All I could really understand was DCIS, possibly spread to lymph nodes and they are recommending a total masectomy. I am driving 3 hours tomorrow to see the dr in person and hopefully get a bit more clarification. Ive also made an appointment at a different hospital the next day to get a second opinion. I am so scared and have no one to talk to. All my family are in the UK and my husband is working in a different country. Im trying to keep it together but its so hard. I would appreciate any advice on what to do next, what to ask etc. Thanks so much everyone.