Hi all. I am new here, 63 years old, an Englishman in Spain, just diagnosed with prostate cancer and am not able, cos of the language which I am rubbish at, to easily ask about this condition. I have a scan, tomorrow actually, and after that, after another doctors appt in a couple of weeks, am told I can choose between radiation and surgery. I am probably going to choose surgery but I am wondering how severe incontinence will be. Erection problems have been warned of too, can probably manage without one of them, but would not really like ongoing incontinence. How likely is it, how severe may it be? If there is a normal level, what is it and how long will it last?
I have every confidence in the public health service here, I have been treated very well and facilities seem good. To be honest, I am having trouble being very concerned by this diagnosis. I tell myself now and then that its cancer, not a cold, but I believe that if I have surgery I will be fine as far as the cancer goes.
Also, I really dont understand what tomorrows scan is for. Is it for determining whether the cancer is elsewhere too? I have not been able to find a clear answer to these questions elsewhere online so am hoping someone here can fill me in.
All the best to everyone
Mike