She doesn't want to know

Hi never used something like this before but got no one els to talk to. my sister was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2010 after operations and treatment she seemed to heading close to remission as she's not had a any treatment this year. 3weeks ago she had spoke to me about how she's feeling poorly again so after 3days of nagging her I convinced her to go the docs he gave her a blood test witch showed her ca125 level at 32, last time it was checked it was only 8. He also sent her for a chest x-ray she then didn't go back for 3appointments till finally she went back 1week later to be told she needed a ct scan as there's a shadow on her lung she's had a cough for 7weeks and she fears the worst and now telling me she's not going to find out the results she's to exhausted physically and mentality and has asked me not to share this with anyone but don't no  what to do can anyone give me some advice to I respect her decision or try and convince her out of it 

  • Hi I can tell your worried , hope you can persuade her to find out, it may not be anything bad and could be to do with the infection. The not knowing must be as bad, maybe you can ask her and say it's hard for you too, I hope it's nothing nasty, wish you well.