Hi there and welcome to the forum, but sorry for why you find yourself here. Hearing that a loved one has been diagnosed with cancer is very upsetting and add in another one and it goes beyond that. Its also not unusual to start thinking that cancer may also be within you. I don't know that anyone can guarantee that you won't get cancer, but the best you can do is try and live a healthy life. I know there are people on this forum that have been battling cancer for several years and they are still going strong. For sure, there are many others who will die with cancer too, but cancer is not an automatic death sentence that it used to be in all cases. Probably the best advice I can give you is to see your doctor if anything unusual or concerning happens. I think the fear of cancer prevents many people from being checked by their doctor when an issue comes up and they end up not seeing their doctor until cancer gets a good head start in their body. If you don't have any symptoms of a possible illness, then I would suggest that you're likely okay, but if something comes up, get it checked right away. Also, you sound really stressed which isn't good either. Try to relax and spend some time on things you enjoy to give yourself a break.

Come on to the forum anytime and let us know how you are doing. Take care and sending you hugs.

Lorraine