Dear Bijou, I really don't know what to say to you my lovely, but you must be honest with you hubby, hold each other, cry together and fight together. I  not a cancer suffer but I have supported a love one and all I can say we are tuffer than you think. You need all you strenght to fight my sweets. I know you are scared and it's hard to be weak and say you need help, but you must be honest with each other. Crying is so natural. I wish your family and you all the luck in the world. Keep strong and positive xxxxx

Hi Bijou

Welcome to the forum but I am sad to see what has brought you here. Getting a cancer diagnosis is a massive shock and takes some coming to terms with. I have a different disease to you and wanted to suggest that if you go on the 'search forum' area on the blue/purple strip at the top of the page where you can type in a subject (ie Myeloma) and other previous discussions should come up. You can then post on that thread and hopefully talk to others going through the same.

I am sure the emotional feelings are similar for us all, so please come to talk whenever you need - there will be many members who can relate to your difficulties.  Remember that the nurses here can be contacted on the free-phone telephone number shown at the bottom of the page, Mon to Fri during office hours. They are a wonderful bunch of people with lots of helpful information and support.

If I don't hear from you in the next few days, good luck with the biopsy on Tuesday and let us know how you get on. Much love x