my wife had stage 4a cervical cancer that was initally untreatable the good people at jimmys worked there magic and 2 years on we are enjoying every day we now have double bags to live with  i have friends that express there concern but mainly as most will have to it is the patient and family that have to deal with things to all partners out there my heart goes out to you as you are not ill so you dont count but if you never stop believing i hope you like me can enjoy time that is not going to be .Every pinched day is worth more than a healthy normal day