l am looking to talk to anyone that has or is going through pagets disease of the vulva
l am looking to talk to anyone that has or is going through pagets disease of the vulva
I have been diagnosed with this rare disease, at present precancerous and will see surgeon in 2 weeks
There is little info on line except from USA which I understand is differently treated to UK
how are you and where are you at in your treatment. Best wishes Euni
Hi wonderful to hear from someone else. I had some skin removed in April which prioved to have just 2 cells that were cancerous. Mine was towards the front and one side only which is an easier area to do as there is spare skin. I had to keep the area well ventilated ! So no pants and loose skirts, but it was summer time so no problem and in fact I quite liked it. I healed quickly but in September an adjectival area didn't feel right so I had that done and it was a much smaller area and proved to be clear of cancer. I am now awaiting another one at the end of April. Each op is smaller than the last and I get over it quicker. However normal trousers are out as they are too tight and I alternate between skirts and tights and track bottom or leggings. A whole new winter wardrobe. The ops are now totally healed and feel just like they should, not painful and not aware of them
in the UK it seems surgical mainly to remove the skin before it become cancerous. In America they seem to go straight for the cream. How old are you? I will be 76 next week
keep in tough and let me know how you get on. I have told so many people and all the ladies have been pleased to know about it and to watch out for themselves . One is being investigated for it soon
Good morning Jacie. So pleased progress has been made. I had every orifice inspected for cancer, none of it was painful and one of them I think they put me out for. And I was all clear which is good to know that.
Although I did wear a lot of trousers I did have a skirt, but I bought two at charity shops, and made two more. I wore thick tights (I experimented by cutting out the whole crotch area but not that comfortable) or long socks underneath, but it's still not as warm as trousers. I don't know what the solution is, perhaps only go out when it's warm and not too windy, difficult here by the sea.
I think I may have told you that it's not easy for the surgeon to know how far to cut either side of the obviously damaged part. They don't want to take too much but neither do they want to take not enough. As it happened there was more to come and I had two more operations after the first one. Then of course I had the radiotherapy and in retrospect the operations were not that painful afterwards compared to the radiotherapy. Anyway the long and the short of it is you want to be rid of it and you will have done whatever needs to be done. Thank goodness for national health, where would we be without it.
I hope you don't have a long wait on the other hand the longer you wait the warmer it gets!
I hope you don't have a long wait on the other hand the longer you wait the warmer it gets! Keep me up to date best wishes Euni
Good afternoon Euni, hope you are well.
It's been a dull grey chilly day here. It was so lovely last weekend ,we had lots of lovely sunshine and really felt spring was here but feels back to winter today !
I went for my pre op assessment yesterday , no date for the op as yet , the nurse said they will need to reduce the covid patients first , so will wait and see. Feeling very nervous about it all.
I've got my CT scan next Tuesday to check all is well internally .... fingers & toes crossed .
Also got my first covid vaccine next Thursday so that's one appointment I can actually look forward too .. ha ha .
Well it's Friday again, hope you are chatting to your friends this evening with a drink or two! I've got a bottle of red on standby for us this evening.
Best Wishes Jacie x
Good to hear from you Jacie, and good news too
. My experience of the op was nothing to fret about, and the sunbequesnt ones were all straight forward and recovery time acceptable. I know we are all different how we react ( I'm a complete shaking wreck when it comes to having teeth cleaned!) I hope your surgeon is as lovely as mine I will actually be seeing him on Wednesday, my first inspection since radiotherapy.
Are you pant less yet no fun in this cold weather. I have now worn proper trousers for several days. I could do them up although bulged over the waist band. Too much sitting around due to winter and lockdown. I needed to lose 6lbs. I did it in a week and tummy bulge gone. I'm a convert to Dr Moselys Fast 800 and I indulged at weekends too! Bought the new book as well and now have lots of lovely recipes to try. All my sort of food too.
keep in touch and keep me up to date. These chats are what get us through these difficult experiences plus of course our NHS, we are so lucky. It may not be perfect but no system is
all the best Euni x
Good luck on Wednesday Euni, hope all goes well with your radiotherapy inspection, let me know how you get on.
You have done well to lose 6lbs in a week , I always watch Micheal Moselys tv programmes but haven't got any of his books as yet.
Yes we are very lucky to have the nhs and as you say it's great we can chat , I've felt so much better about things since I've been chatting to you . I did ask my consultant if she's sees many people with extramammary pagets and she said maybe one or two a year so there's not many of us !
Best Wishes Jacie x
Yes, We are truly rare! But I knew that as I'm sure you did, and not just because of Pagets
do you ever come to the east coast area? The sun has just come out, shining on my washing. Having been in all morning I'm going for a walk along the prom, see the sea and breathe in the wonderful air
Will let you know how Wednesday goes. I hate all the undressing part , so much easier when it was skirt weather and no pants - just laid on the couch and pulled everything up,,
X E
Enjoy your walk and all that lovely sea air ... wonderful on a sunny afternoon .
We have some friends who live in Norfolk , not right on the east coast but about 12 miles away. We met them on holiday many years ago and have always stayed in touch . We do alternate year 'long weekend visits' . We always love going there as it's great to get to the coast and they love the Malvern Hills when they visit us.
All the best for Wednesday . J x
All good news ! He always comments about me healing so quickly, then added that if hadn't done the 3 ops snd knowing I'd had radiotherapy, I would not have known, as it looks normal. Talking to my retired travelling friend today (a Retired nurse) she said the skin will never be normal entire because it has been literally burnt But I'm pleased. He will see me twice a year for 3 yrs then yearly for another 3.
wearing real trousers is great!!
x Euni
That's great news Euni, I'm really pleased for you . I was thinking of you on Wednesday and hoping all went well.
You can really enjoy wearing your proper trousers again now . Great that you only now have to go twice a year for check ups .
I had my covid vaccine today, was very quick and very well organised.
Jacie x
I forgot to tell you Jacie that I wrote to this site and asked if it was possible to exchange contact details privately. I had an acknowledgement but no answer. I felt we had a lot in common. I'm not hopeful
I had no ill effects from my jab but my daughter and grand daughter certainly did. They are both asthmatic and grand daughter has had Covid and was really poorly with long lasting effects
having put on a few lbs since Christmas I decided to try the fast 800 diet. It worked a treat and I lost 6lbs in the first week. It suits me so well and have no problems keeping to the principals and adding a bit more as I don't want to lose any more, just maintain. My daughter had been struggling for a month without success and within 2 days lost 3lbs. Can recommend it and it's healthy
best wishes and chat again soon X E
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Hello Euni,
I am so sorry that you never received a reply - it seems there was a little mix up as your query was sent to our Supporter Services department who then forwarded it on to us. Really sorry about that. It's great that you would like to talk privately to jacie and that you two have so much in common. Rest assured you will soon be able to communicate privately. Before you can privately message someone else, you will need to add them as a friend. You can find out how to do that on this page.
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